So my colleagues at Charis Ministries in Chicago have asked a rather provocative question: Why Should Pope Francis attend a Charis Retreat? And so I would like to offer the Top 10 reasons why a Ignatian Retreat and specifically a Charis Retreat would benefit the likes of Papa Francisco. 1) A Transition is a Great …
Category Archive: reflections
Mar
10
Can You Love Someone Who Tells You to Drop Dead?
A Jewish woman who survived the concentration camps tells the story of the train ride to Auschwitz. She was with her little brother…and she looked down at him on the train and noticed that he didn’t have any shoes on. And she screamed at him, “What is WRONG with you? Can’t you keep you things …
Dec
30
Want to Be a Holy Family?
When speaking of saints Thomas Merton reminds us that all you have to do to become a saint is to want to be one. Being a saint is simply to become the best version of who you already are. And I can think of no better image for a Holy Family. But are we always …
Dec
16
We Need to Be John the Baptist Today
Many people say that words fail us during these times of great challenge, when parents can’t even send their kids to kindergarten. I respectfully disagree. I can say that many of us don’t know what to say during times when horrendous situations befall us, and to protect ourselves from saying something stupid, we say nothing. …
Nov
19
When It Seems Like the Stars are Falling Out of the Sky
Here is a reflection from last night’s apocalyptic Sunday readings: Hey! What’s new? That can be a catch up line…But “what’s new” can also be scary. After all, who knows what day it will be when our world ends? The Mayans tell us that the world will end of December 21, 2012 at 11:11 …I’m …
Oct
01
To Whom Would You Give Your Right Arm?
A dental student last year asked one of his classmates a provocative question before their big gross anatomy test. “Linda, would you cut off your “ring finger toe” in exchange for an “A” on this test?” I quickly pointed out that if he was about to take an anatomy test and the only way he …
Sep
21
Gross Anatomy Hackey Sack
So today out first year Medical and Dental students took their first big exam in gross anatomy. For longtime readers, you’ll remember that each year I give out these little stress dolls to the students to keep them loose: He doesn’t look like ME at all. But isn’t he cute? Scrubs, big teeth for the …
Sep
03
Enjoying the Right to Be Free and Work
On this Labor Day, my friend Paula Kampf reminded me of the rights of workers to be free. And that kind of reminded us of this song: My book Loving Work has been published and released on this fine day when we celebrate work. It makes a great gift for all those who have worked …
Aug
30
The 3rd Week: Stay with Him
In the Spiritual Exercises of St. Ignatius the third week of the exercises are focused on the transformative experience of the cross. We reflect directly on the experience of the cross in our lives and often meditate imaginatively on Calvary. A friend of mine once felt like he was stuck in the third week on …
Aug
29
Are We Weak Enough?
When looking for the best person for a job we often say that a person’s gifts or talents are what are most required for them to gain that position. But Jesuit Father Michael Buckley wrote a piece awhile back that challenges that assumption for the priesthood. I would challenge that this is true for nearly …





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